“If there is one
thing that is perfectly clear to me after thirty-five years of working with the
greatest athletes, golfers, and businessmen in the world, it is that everyone
feels pressure. The great competitors
actually learn to perform better in pressure situations than in casual
ones. But even the best will
occasionally choke and then have to relearn their lessons. It is not something you ever master or
own. There is no sense in trying to
learn all of the lessons of life the hard way – from our own personal
experience. It is much more efficient to
learn from the experience of others who have been successful in competitive
situations”.
“Who better to have
as a teacher than one of the greatest golfers of all time, a man with a
reputation for being fiery, tough and resilient – Gary Player? Gary
had to work hard and earn everything he has achieved. Nothing came easily or readily to him. Most of what he achieved came through
self-discipline, perseverance, and determination”.
Foreword to Publication ‘Gary Player Don’t Choke’
Dr Bob Rotella, Sports Psychologist and best-selling
author
Extracts from:
‘Gary Player Don’t Choke – A Champion’s Guide to Winning Under Pressure’
Gary Player is one
of the true legends of golf, amassing victories in 164 tournaments around the
globe over five decades, including eighteen Major championships and the career
Grand Slam. His business interests are
represented by Black Knight International and range from course architecture
and race horses to real estate and wine.
Player also oversees The Player Foundation, a charitable organization
that promotes education for underprivileged children throughout the world. He was inducted into the World Golf Hall of
Fame in 1974 and was voted “Sportsman of the Century” in South Africa in
2000. Born in South
Africa , he divides his time between his ranch in the Cape
and his home in Jupiter Island ,
Florida .
Gary Player’s Major Mentality
The beauty of golf
is the “one shot at a time” philosophy it engenders. It forces you to focus on the moment and not
on what happened in the previous shot or on what is going to happen in a shot
to come. The great golfers are the ones
who are able to move on from a bad shot and see their current shot as a fresh
start. A bad shot must be seen in the
light of its ability to force a correction.
We grow the most in tough times.
If you can get your head around this and see tough times as a chance for
growth and deeper meaning, you will arm yourself with the most powerful mental
weapon known to man – optimism.
Gary Player’s Views on Life and Making a Difference
True success is
judged by your relationship with your fellow human beings. This life is about making a difference. It’s not about personal enrichment or glory. Someone once said that we are blessed so that
we can be a blessing to others.
In business, I was
driven to succeed so that I could pass this success on to those I wanted to
help. To simply garner success for
yourself can become a very unrewarding experience. Your success needs to positively affect
others for it to have wide-ranging benefits for society as a whole. And this is within reach of one person in a
career, a small business, or the biggest multinational corporations.
A great
read reflecting on success in golf, business and life
ISBN 978-1-77022-140-6